Butch Stuff, life stories, Love, Relationships, Things Butch-Femme

Sex. Women. Relationships

Sex.  It’s so simple, yet so fucking complicated.  I’m going to admit something very personal here…I haven’t had sex in 2 ½ years…since just after my chest surgery, with “DG” a woman who I cared a lot for from up in Maine. Yes. Truth.  Some of you may recall my musings about her a few… Continue reading Sex. Women. Relationships

life stories, Living in Maine, Personal Thoughts, Photos and videos

Pulling It All Together

Writing again from my spot of dirt on this big blue marble that we all inhabit. I am venturing into pulling all of my web content together so that it's all linked and easy to navigate.  This is no easy task.  Over the last 10 years I have spread myself out a bit across the… Continue reading Pulling It All Together

Civil Protest, Personal Thoughts, politics, Trump, Unrest in America

My Pure Anger and Outrage

Yes, I have been messing with the theme and settings on this blog once again.  I am just not happy with the way it looks.  Grrr....  And I've tried the building a web page thing, it's just too complicated for me. I just want to write and have it presented decently.  What I need is… Continue reading My Pure Anger and Outrage

Civil disobedience, Civil Protest, Democrats, Living in Maine, News trending, Patriotsim, Personal Thoughts, politics, Protesting, Racism, sexism, homophobia, etc., Republicans, Resistance movement, Trump

Code Red: Republican Tax Attack

It's become very hard to live in America under the current President and his administration - albeit an ever-shrinking administration, it's still got it's key assholes in there making things worse by the day.  Tillerson has been dismantling the state department; eliminating women, people of color and anyone left from the Obama administration.  And he's… Continue reading Code Red: Republican Tax Attack

Butch Stuff, Civil disobedience, Democrats, life stories, Living in Maine, News trending, Personal Thoughts, politics, recovery, Republicans, Sexuality, Trump, Unrest in America

Harassment, Trump and Babble…

The weekend has been relatively uneventful.  Lots of napping with my dogs, puttering around the house at various chores like laundry and playing on the computer.  I am finding that winter - or cold weather in general - keeps my energy level down and I don't have much motivation to do anything outside the house. … Continue reading Harassment, Trump and Babble…

Butch Stuff, Gender Identity, Indentity, Lesbian, Love, Relationships, Sexuality, Things Butch-Femme

Again on Butch-femme Relationships

I have just had the pleasure of reading a most outstanding piece on Huffpost  called "Redefining Butch-femme Relationships", by Georgia Kollas, writer, Huffington Post blogger, and cultural observer.  I loved it!  It could not have been any better!  I encourage all of you to give it a good read! Also, Ms. Kollas is a self-identified… Continue reading Again on Butch-femme Relationships

addiction, Butch Stuff, Depression, life stories, Living in Maine, Personal Thoughts, recovery

The Week Begins…

This past weekend was a pretty rough one for me.  I didn't do much.  I had so much on my mind that I felt paralyzed and couldn't focus on doing anything constructive.  So I spend much of it watching TV, listening to news, surfing the web and hibernating in my house.  I didn't see a… Continue reading The Week Begins…