Sex. It’s so simple, yet so fucking complicated. I’m going to admit something very personal here…I haven’t had sex in 2 ½ years…since just after my chest surgery, with “DG” a woman who I cared a lot for from up in Maine. Yes. Truth. Some of you may recall my musings about her a few… Continue reading Sex. Women. Relationships
I have just had the pleasure of reading a most outstanding piece on Huffpost called "Redefining Butch-femme Relationships", by Georgia Kollas, writer, Huffington Post blogger, and cultural observer. I loved it! It could not have been any better! I encourage all of you to give it a good read! Also, Ms. Kollas is a self-identified… Continue reading Again on Butch-femme Relationships
That's where I have been lately...in the fog. I'm feeling a whole slew of ways. Emotions are such fucked up things most of the time. I've been trying like hell to sort through them all, from those feelings of loss, to feelings of renewed strength. It's no easy task. I've been burying most of my emotions… Continue reading In the Fog..
I've been thinking a lot about this topic, I watched a video on YouTube about whether it's okay or not to stay "in the closet" about your sexuality if you are LGBT forever or not. This gave me a lot to think about because I am currently talking to someone who IS living in the… Continue reading Closet or Not?
I am Butch. A Butch who loves femme women in particular and a member of the Butch-femme community; a community that struggles in today's politically correct sort of world. We are more often than not, ostracized for "copy catting or aping" heteronormativity. My partner is asked why she feels the "need" to be so feminine,… Continue reading Rules Don’t Apply: Being Butch
I am so fucking psyched for the Christmas holiday season this year! Finally a year where I feel so damned good and things are really looking positive in my life. I've got the world by the proverbial balls right now. My family is great, the dogs are doing well, my house is in order and… Continue reading Sunday Snipets
ITs common around this time of year to hear partners of Butches - usually in my experience our femme counterparts - ask what to get their badass Butch for Christmas. Of course if they are asking for something specific or special then your job should be pretty easy. You just have to figure out if… Continue reading Butch Christmas Stuff