Tales of Love…My Girl’s Visit…

I've been insanely busy lately.  My girlfriend visited me, with her 3 yr. old daughter in tow, from last Thursday until Monday afternoon when I drove them back to Logan Airport...they missed their 5:30 flight, but luckily made a 6:00 flight.  While they were here we had a terrific time.  Having her child here made... Continue Reading →

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Crazy Spring Feelings

I get crazy for her some nights, that urge just won't quit.  I lay flat on my back, which is how I sleep anyway, stretch out and try to imagine...oops, did I turn off the stove...? Fuck.  And, yes, I generally get up to check if that thought, or a thought about the heat being... Continue Reading →

Butch Desire

Butch desire is to fem hunger what peanut butter is to jelly; what ying is to yang. I recently read a really GREAT blog about "hunger"; specifically fem hunger. You can read it here, which is my previous cross post about this blog, and will connect you with this wonderful blogger. The writer is a... Continue Reading →

Sex. Women. Relationships

Sex.  It’s so simple, yet so fucking complicated.  I’m going to admit something very personal here…I haven’t had sex in 2 ½ years…since just after my chest surgery, with “DG” a woman who I cared a lot for from up in Maine. Yes. Truth.  Some of you may recall my musings about her a few... Continue Reading →

Again on Butch-femme Relationships

I have just had the pleasure of reading a most outstanding piece on Huffpost  called "Redefining Butch-femme Relationships", by Georgia Kollas, writer, Huffington Post blogger, and cultural observer.  I loved it!  It could not have been any better!  I encourage all of you to give it a good read! Also, Ms. Kollas is a self-identified... Continue Reading →

In the Fog..

That's where I have been lately...in the fog.  I'm feeling a whole slew of ways.  Emotions are such fucked up things most of the time.  I've been trying like hell to sort through them all, from those feelings of loss, to feelings of renewed strength.  It's no easy task.  I've been burying most of my emotions... Continue Reading →

Closet or Not?

I've been thinking a lot about this topic, I watched a video on YouTube about whether it's okay or not to stay "in the closet" about your sexuality if you are LGBT forever or not.  This gave me a lot to think about because I am currently talking to someone who IS living in the... Continue Reading →

Rules Don’t Apply: Being Butch

I am Butch.  A Butch who loves femme women in particular and a member of the Butch-femme community; a community that struggles in today's politically correct sort of world.  We are more often than not, ostracized for "copy catting or aping" heteronormativity.  My partner is asked why she feels the "need" to be so feminine,... Continue Reading →

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