I get crazy for her some nights, that urge just won’t quit. I lay flat on my back, which is how I sleep anyway, stretch out and try to imagine…oops, did I turn off the stove…? Fuck. And, yes, I generally get up to check if that thought, or a thought about the heat being turned down crosses my mind. After getting back up to check on things at least once, I settle into my bed, one dog laying by my side and the other laying on my chest. This is how I sleep every night. I’m a back sleeper, flat on my back. I wake myself laughing quite often, and can manipulate my dreams if I try hard enough…it’s a gift I believe.
I got up this morning, turned on my computer and resumed watching a movie that I had started last night – before my eyelids wouldn’t stay open. The movie was “Below Her Mouth” and is very erotic, sexy and one of the best lesbian movies I have seen done. Generally when you watch any movie with two women getting it on it’s staged and done by straight men, thus it’s not realistic or true to form. THIS movie was very realistic, true to form and a great depiction of lesbian sex. Didn’t look fake at all, which made it even hotter. So, if you’re looking to get yourself a bit sexually aroused this weekend, check out “Below Her Mouth” on Netflix. I can just about guarantee you won’t be sorry!
The high winds last week got so bad one night that it blew my bird feeding station pole down, and it’s anchored by a piece of marble…so it has weight, but the wind was so ferocious that anything without deep roots was flying around. Luckily, I only lost one feeder. My finch tube feeder was crushed by the pole when it fell. I just put everything back together and the local birds are now happily snacking once again.
Spring is very slow coming here in Maine this year. It’s April 7th and it’s 38 degrees, windy, but sunny. It’s just been a weird ending to winter for us. Keeps snowing, about every other day we get snow. None of it is “sticking” or building up; generally it’s gone in a few hours of sunshine. But it’s annoying as fuck.
I am anxious for warmer days, sunshine and gardening! I have even mapped out my property in planning out my gardens for 2018. I do love my gardens, and being outside working in them. Even weeding has a sort of zen feeling to it for me. And I’ve been watching some DIY videos about prepping the vegetable garden soil for better growth and production. I haven’t added compost to that garden since I built it the first spring I was in this house. So, compost is being mixed in this season, so things should grow good. And I am planning a long garden down the side of the trailer, coming out about 6′ or so, I bought a bunch of wildflower seeds and am going to prepare that area and over-seed it with a mix of four types of seeds: hummingbird attractor, flowering perennials, flowering annuals, and a butterfly mixture. This next coming weekend it’s supposed to be warmer, so I am planning to do some outdoor work; raking, trimming and laying some stones I have procured from the nearby quarry.
April 10, 2018.
My girlfriend and I are doing really great, despite the distance. My heart is really happy about this. It’s strange to take such a big chance on love again at 56…I seriously thought that this part of my life was pretty much finished. I never expected to meet Bones. She’s changed my whole outlook on some things, and I was obviously very ready to make the changes. I don’t exactly know where we are taking things, it’s complicated in a few ways. She has a life in Texas, a business and a child. Right now we are just trying to stay connected daily, enjoying the moments, and not making any future plans. Living and taking things day-by-day, as they come. She’s coming back in May to spend some more time with me. And she’s bringing her daughter to meet me. I am really looking forward to this next visit!
I’ve really gone out on a limb with this woman. I’m pleasantly surprised at how well things are going and how deeply she’s affected me. I’m allowing her past many walls and letting her through the barriers to my heart. It’s been scary, but worth every wince. She just looks at me and I melt into a puddle inside…the feeling is outrageously delicious. I long for her touch when we are apart; and I know she’s feeling it too. That’s the best part. I feel for people who settle for anything less than this feeling, it’s the best feeling in the world to connect with another person on this level of depth, emotionally, physically and sexually, it’s just phenomenal.
I have opened a new website for anyone interested in Butch-femme connections and conversation. It’s just getting off the ground. It’s a membership only site where you join up and create a profile. I am going to link it here in this post. Anyone who would like to contribute, participate or even just lurk around until they feel more comfortable, is welcome to join. The site has been created for women who prescribe to the Butch-femme dynamic mostly, but there are forums for other things as well such as LGBT news and articles. The site is called Butch-Femme-Perspectives. Please join me! I feel that with some effort on all of our parts we can make the site pretty damned cool! We’ll add and subtract from it as necessary, creating our own unique safe place on the web.
Alrighty, let me wrap this up. The day is burning away, I need to get some things done outside and am lingering inside just waiting for it to warm up a tad. Hell..I could be waiting til Thursday at this rate! Haha…
What does your week hold in store for you? Any great things happening? What are you looking forward to?