I have just discovered that there is an app for Writer’s Block. Yes, it’s true. Someone had the where with all to figure out that us writers are occasionally mentally constipated and need a brain laxative of sorts to get things flowing once again. The app is aptly called Writer’s Blocks, see what I […]Read More Writer’s Block & Publishing a Book
Sorry if posted multiple times What do you think of trans men and trans women forcing themselves into and eventual shut down- the owners gave up – of the Michigan Womyn’s Festival? I think lesbian born women have the legal right to exclude anyone who is not a womyn born womyn without facing harrassment, legal […]Read More Very Tough Question…
I got a note from a young Butch who is struggling with being Butch. Sad when one struggles so hard with just being who they authentically ARE. Pisses me off that we have nurtured a lesbian community who thinks that Butch equals male. Butch doesn’t “equal” male at all, Butch is far more than plain […]Read More A Little Rant on Butch-phobia
I have a buddy named Ryal, that has just recently started blogging on WordPress. Here’s the link to his blog: “Trigger Warning” yes, the name of the blog is Trigger Warning, and I will add that there are some seriously blunt topics discussed. He’s just gotten started and could use our input and interaction on […]Read More Introducing a New Blogger…”Trigger Warning”
I’ve been doing a lot of great reading today and tonight specifically around Butch-Femme lifestyle and dynamics. I read one article about Butch “peacocking” and that got me thinking, and it lead me to other links to other writings by some awesome other Butch writers. Yeah, we seem to always be the “others” even in […]Read More Inspirational Butch Authors: My Heroes
From Kim “On a completely unrelated topic, one of these fine days, could you do a video on “labels” and the importance/unimportance of them (based on your opinions and perspectives)? I know you’ve said before that you identify strongly as “Butch” and use the label often, and many people within the community do identify […]Read More Final Words on Labels
“I have a question for those of you who are stone butch identified. I have personally found that a lot of stone butch I’ve dated are in fact not stone at all by the definition I understand. Why is it that our butch brethren feel the need to add ‘stone’ to their label if they […]Read More Stone Butch Views
“Significant problems cannot be solved at the same level of thinking which created them.” Einstein I read the most horrible blog yesterday here on WordPress, and was stunned to see such a waste of time and space on here. I’ll give you the general gist of the blog: it was hateful. AND the blogger was […]Read More Stop the Stupid In-Fighting!
Flannel Files is a blog that I read regularly. In a post concerning her own personal metamorphosis she asks these questions… “”What about you? Are you a moody butch or in a relationship with one? Are you still a work in progress or is your transformation complete?” I certainly have been told that I am […]Read More Moods and Transformation
Would you rather live life according to the approval of others or aligned with your truths and your dreams? Inadvertently we all start out in this world in the way of living according to the approval of others; it’s called childhood. We are dressed to the approval of our parents – or grandparents – and […]Read More Approval of Others….Or Truth of Self?