The weekend has been relatively uneventful. Lots of napping with my dogs, puttering around the house at various chores like laundry and playing on the computer. I am finding that winter - or cold weather in general - keeps my energy level down and I don't have much motivation to do anything outside the house. … Continue reading Harassment, Trump and Babble…
I have just had the pleasure of reading a most outstanding piece on Huffpost called "Redefining Butch-femme Relationships", by Georgia Kollas, writer, Huffington Post blogger, and cultural observer. I loved it! It could not have been any better! I encourage all of you to give it a good read! Also, Ms. Kollas is a self-identified… Continue reading Again on Butch-femme Relationships
It used to be so much more simple! It used to be that you were either gay or straight, period. Or at least that is how it was in my world growing up in the 60’s/70’s and partying my ass off in the gay bars in the 80’s…it used to be easier I believe. I’m… Continue reading The Gender Revolution?
"How do we bridge who we become with who we were?" "Remember who you wanted to be" quoted from a bumper sticker I saw yesterday "Language sets expectations" I seem to be running into all of these one-liners that are basically alluding to identity and I find this very interesting. I have also had some… Continue reading Identity Complexity
I've been thinking a lot about this topic, I watched a video on YouTube about whether it's okay or not to stay "in the closet" about your sexuality if you are LGBT forever or not. This gave me a lot to think about because I am currently talking to someone who IS living in the… Continue reading Closet or Not?
Yes, I said it. Undetectable equals untransmittable. This is a silent secret evidently in the HIV world. I have known this for a long time, but the stigma around having HIV has kept me quiet about it too. I've been reading a lot on the topic and I think that if people knew this that… Continue reading Undetectable=Untransmittable
I never title my posts until I am finished writing them. How about you? Do you start with a title or the body of your post? It just occurs to me that maybe I am a bit weird in this respect. It's a cold day here in southern Maine. I been freezing all damned day.… Continue reading This Week…