Greetings! I'm just dropping a quick note here about a new website that I have started up for the Butch-femme community. It's in it's infancy, but in order to grow I need people to populate it! On the site, when you sign up, you create a profile and can post like you do on Facebook.… Continue reading New!!! Butch-Femme Perspectives Community Connection Page!
It used to be so much more simple! It used to be that you were either gay or straight, period. Or at least that is how it was in my world growing up in the 60’s/70’s and partying my ass off in the gay bars in the 80’s…it used to be easier I believe. I’m… Continue reading The Gender Revolution?
Man! Has language changed some radically since I've been walking this green earth. Daily I am surprised by the "new" use of "old" words; the newer definitions and meanings of some. Start with the word we all know and use in a zillion different ways: Queer. Now we know the dictionary meaning to be "odd… Continue reading Those Darned Definitions…
From Kim "On a completely unrelated topic, one of these fine days, could you do a video on "labels" and the importance/unimportance of them (based on your opinions and perspectives)? I know you've said before that you identify strongly as "Butch" and use the label often, and many people within the community do identify… Continue reading Final Words on Labels
So, a Butch buddy of mine was heading south out of Maine when she broke down in Kittery, the next town over. She called me looking for some help and a temporary place to crash, of course I offered up both like a good Butch. Today we spent the day running around together like 2… Continue reading Bromance
"Significant problems cannot be solved at the same level of thinking which created them." EinsteinI read the most horrible blog yesterday here on WordPress, and was stunned to see such a waste of time and space on here. I'll give you the general gist of the blog: it was hateful. AND the blogger was ranting… Continue reading Stop the Stupid In-Fighting!
"Everytime that I am misgendered I am reminded that I do not fit; that I am not this. I am not that." ivan e coyote from "Gender Failure" (on Youtube clip about ivan and Rae Spoon's Gender Failure performances). I can relate with many of ivan's stories and have all but the very latest (which IS on… Continue reading The Proverbial Line