Existing Outside the Gender Binary
Wow! Thank you for this site. This is really the first time I’ve heard of butch being used to describe a gender marker. Going from tomboy to butch is exactly what happened for me and I was always bullied in school for being masculine, so I always believed I was fat; ugly; unloveable and wrong for existing. I’ve struggled with feeling like escaping it all and becoming a man – wondering if I am transgender. Yet I never felt that unwavering definite call to transition. Maybe I just need to accept being a butch dyke and move away from the self hate over it.
Thanks for your input here. Yes I truly believe that Butch is my gender and i am happy being my authentic Butch self!
what do you say to a Butch who you once got to know for a short time…who you learned from but didn’t know it at the time…Now after many years of true life Experience YOU KNOW… But how do I tell her that I “get it” finally….I want to tell her, but she would never believe me……Maybe I’m telling her now…..
Well i think perhaps a nice direct email wo7ld be the place to start. I bet she would eben appreciate it.
Yet hen I will. Thank you Angie for being there for me a few hrs ago when I was going through a difficult time. It’s been a long time but I did finally move on and join the Lesbian lifestyle and enjoy each day being a Lesbian it just feels natural to me and the puzzle fits without being forced into spaces. You were not very happy knowing me but I understand why now and I’ve evolved with my new secure self and plenty of empathy in my newly realized lifestyle. So thank you. Dee PS. I’m an Easterner now.
This is Butch….yes Ange, you are very Butch and very exciting. When I think back, of you and remember what it was like to be around you yrs ago, Wow, I didn’t “get it” a that time but now, I feel it right down to my soul of what it feels like to be a Femme and be attracted to a true Butch….Becomming Femme goes right into your mind passing deeply through her body, where it feels like every cell in her body FEELS on alert, ready with high desire….it’s amazingly wondrous. I LOVE THAT FEELING. I’ve arrived. Take care, Di👠🕶💍👡💄💋👗
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