I have just had the pleasure of reading a most outstanding piece on Huffpost called "Redefining Butch-femme Relationships", by Georgia Kollas, writer, Huffington Post blogger, and cultural observer. I loved it! It could not have been any better! I encourage all of you to give it a good read! Also, Ms. Kollas is a self-identified… Continue reading Again on Butch-femme Relationships
There will always be someone who disagrees, no matter what the topic is. And inside the LGBT...xyz community there are many voices, many cultures, tons of identities and buckets of genders. I recently cross posted an interesting article that was on Slate.com titled "Why I'm Still a Butch Lesbian" in a Facebook group that I… Continue reading Butch…Trans…A Conversation
It used to be so much more simple! It used to be that you were either gay or straight, period. Or at least that is how it was in my world growing up in the 60’s/70’s and partying my ass off in the gay bars in the 80’s…it used to be easier I believe. I’m… Continue reading The Gender Revolution?
Man! Has language changed some radically since I've been walking this green earth. Daily I am surprised by the "new" use of "old" words; the newer definitions and meanings of some. Start with the word we all know and use in a zillion different ways: Queer. Now we know the dictionary meaning to be "odd… Continue reading Those Darned Definitions…
Saturday, 24th...It's snowing like crazy here today and I am stuck inside watching the flakes rain down from the clouds. There is not even any reason to get dressed, other than to go outside to shovel, today. I'm going to stay in my comfortable clothes, my flannel pajama pants and a sweatshirt and slippers all… Continue reading Snow…Dating…Sex….What’s up!?
The way we are raised, the way we grow up is responsible for forming many of the ways that we think and it informs the way that one looks at the world. No two people look at things exactly the same. We are taught our manners, our prejudices and our ways as we are raised… Continue reading MainelyButch: Butch Rambles
Flannel Files is a blog that I read regularly. In a post concerning her own personal metamorphosis she asks these questions...""What about you? Are you a moody butch or in a relationship with one? Are you still a work in progress or is your transformation complete?"I certainly have been told that I am moody at… Continue reading Moods and Transformation