“No one is ever promised and easy path through this snake infested swamp…and then it’s suddenly our turn to cross that black water, or become lost in the past, perpetually locked in suspended states of illusion. Just where are you going? What’s the purpose of your journey? Do you know? Or have an idea? […]Read More Deep Thoughts and a Look Back on 2019
Damn…it’s Friday again! While I absolutely LOVE it when we reach Friday each week, this week is different. This Friday my Babe is here and I want time to stand still. She’s here vacationing with me in Maine, with her 3 yr old daughter, as I’ve said previously. So, I am wanting time to stop […]Read More Start August Rambles…Life is Good!
I’ve been insanely busy lately. My girlfriend visited me, with her 3 yr. old daughter in tow, from last Thursday until Monday afternoon when I drove them back to Logan Airport…they missed their 5:30 flight, but luckily made a 6:00 flight. While they were here we had a terrific time. Having her child here made […]Read More Tales of Love…My Girl’s Visit…
Sex. It’s so simple, yet so fucking complicated. I’m going to admit something very personal here…I haven’t had sex in 2 ½ years…since just after my chest surgery, with “DG” a woman who I cared a lot for from up in Maine. Yes. Truth. Some of you may recall my musings about her a few […]Read More Sex. Women. Relationships
I have just had the pleasure of reading a most outstanding piece on Huffpost called “Redefining Butch-femme Relationships”, by Georgia Kollas, writer, Huffington Post blogger, and cultural observer. I loved it! It could not have been any better! I encourage all of you to give it a good read! Also, Ms. Kollas is a self-identified […]Read More Again on Butch-femme Relationships
I’m awake. I should be sound asleep, dreaming of sex or something equally as deviant. But, hell no, I am wide awake and just wishing I could sleep some more; hoping that maybe after I write a little and just chill that I’ll be able to fall back to sleep for a few hours. The […]Read More The Insomnia Files
It’s the middle of the night…I reach for my phone…has she messaged me? Did I miss it? Damn, I never want to miss her messages, her texts, videos, pictures…I don’t want to miss a thing. I’ve been sort of walking on clouds…and eggshells simultaneously. I’m falling very hard for her and I know I can’t […]Read More I Don’t Want to Miss This…
It’s a nice cool 61 degree morning here on the coast of Maine, albeit a rather overcast day. The clouds gathering above me in the sky are heavy and full of rain – which will surely soon be pouring down upon my thirsty gardens and lawn spaces, thankfully. I am up. I got up at […]Read More And I don’t wanna miss a thing…
I’ve been thinking a lot about this topic, I watched a video on YouTube about whether it’s okay or not to stay “in the closet” about your sexuality if you are LGBT forever or not. This gave me a lot to think about because I am currently talking to someone who IS living in the […]Read More Closet or Not?
Once again I am awakened at 2am, just am not meant to sleep like a normal person should right now. I wake up and I am just…up…no going back to sleep in the immediate future. I had a really great conversation with a great woman that I have been talking to lately. It wasn’t an […]Read More Early Morning Rantings!