Butch Stuff, life stories, Love, Relationships, Things Butch-Femme

Sex. Women. Relationships

Sex.  It’s so simple, yet so fucking complicated.  I’m going to admit something very personal here…I haven’t had sex in 2 ½ years…since just after my chest surgery, with “DG” a woman who I cared a lot for from up in Maine. Yes. Truth.  Some of you may recall my musings about her a few… Continue reading Sex. Women. Relationships

life stories, Living in Maine, Personal Thoughts, Photos and videos

Pulling It All Together

Writing again from my spot of dirt on this big blue marble that we all inhabit. I am venturing into pulling all of my web content together so that it's all linked and easy to navigate.  This is no easy task.  Over the last 10 years I have spread myself out a bit across the… Continue reading Pulling It All Together

Civil disobedience, Civil Protest, Patriotsim, politics, Protesting, Racism, sexism, homophobia, etc., Resistance movement, Sports, Trump, Unrest in America

Taking a Knee During a National Anthem

Colin Kapaernick chose to take a knee during the playing of the national anthem at an NFL football game, it has cause huge uproar and much discussion in this country about patriotism, racism and loyalty. Today, September 24, 2017, the whole country tuned in to watch and see what all of the players were going… Continue reading Taking a Knee During a National Anthem

addiction, Butch Stuff, Living in Maine, Love, Personal Thoughts, Relationships

Personal Stuff, Updates

Hello my fearless readers! I hope you are all in the very best of health and spirits - wherever you are on this big blue marble we call Earth. The weather is turning here in southern Maine.  It's beginning to feel a lot like Autumn, or Fall as we call it here.  Morning temperatures are… Continue reading Personal Stuff, Updates

Butch Stuff, Hurrican Harvey, Living in Maine, News trending

The Insomnia Files

I'm awake. I should be sound asleep, dreaming of sex or something equally as deviant. But, hell no, I am wide awake and just wishing I could sleep some more; hoping that maybe after I write a little and just chill that I'll be able to fall back to sleep for a few hours. The… Continue reading The Insomnia Files

Butch Stuff, Gender Identity, General Blips, Lesbian, Living in Maine, Love, Personal Thoughts

I Don’t Want to Miss This…

It's the middle of the night...I reach for my phone...has she messaged me?  Did I miss it?  Damn, I never want to miss her messages, her texts, videos, pictures...I don't want to miss a thing. I've been sort of walking on clouds...and eggshells simultaneously.  I'm falling very hard for her and I know I can't… Continue reading I Don’t Want to Miss This…

Family, Living in Maine, Love, News trending, Personal Thoughts

Sunday Reflection

As a good friend reminded me - and people on my Facebook page - The divisiveness, the hate and the rhetoric has been there a long time.  Trump is just the catalyst that brought it into the bright light of day and made it acceptable.          (thanks ButchDK) Last night I had… Continue reading Sunday Reflection