Sex. Women. Relationships

Sex.  It’s so simple, yet so fucking complicated.  I’m going to admit something very personal here…I haven’t had sex in 2 ½ years…since just after my chest surgery, with “DG” a woman who I cared a lot for from up in Maine. Yes. Truth.  Some of you may recall my musings about her a few... Continue Reading →

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Again on Butch-femme Relationships

I have just had the pleasure of reading a most outstanding piece on Huffpost  called "Redefining Butch-femme Relationships", by Georgia Kollas, writer, Huffington Post blogger, and cultural observer.  I loved it!  It could not have been any better!  I encourage all of you to give it a good read! Also, Ms. Kollas is a self-identified... Continue Reading →

Court Dates…Thoughts

I got home from an 8 hour shift at work this afternoon to be greeted by 3 - THREE ! - fat envelopes in my mail from my attorney.  Fuck. One was the discovery from my last run in and lock up incident in Portland.  The second...was about a hearing on a motion to terminate... Continue Reading →

Tuesday Thoughts…Puerto Rico

I have been pretty much confined to my house for the last 4-5 days because of the pain and discomfort in my right shoulder, collarbone and both arms.  It's been driving me batshit crazy.  I'm not accustomed to being held down by physical limitations like this.  But, it has given me time to get some... Continue Reading →

Some Photos to Share…

The last couple of weeks in pictures. From the top...a segment of the new Sarah Long drawbridge that is being built to replace the old one, on US Route 1 in Kittery going to Portsmouth.  These segments will help put the span in place, which is supposed to happen at high tide on Oct. 17th... Continue Reading →

Current Reality.

I'm tired.  Tired of fighting all this hate in this country.  The last 7 months, since Trump took office, have really been very difficult.  I'm sure many feel that same weariness that I feel right now.  But I know it is so important to not give up just because we are weary.  I know I... Continue Reading →

I Don’t Want to Miss This…

It's the middle of the night...I reach for my phone...has she messaged me?  Did I miss it?  Damn, I never want to miss her messages, her texts, videos, pictures...I don't want to miss a thing. I've been sort of walking on clouds...and eggshells simultaneously.  I'm falling very hard for her and I know I can't... Continue Reading →

Butch…Trans…A Conversation

There will always be someone who disagrees, no matter what the topic is. And inside the LGBT...xyz community there are many voices, many cultures, tons of identities and buckets of genders. I recently cross posted an interesting article that was on Slate.com titled "Why I'm Still a Butch Lesbian" in a Facebook group that I... Continue Reading →

Role Models

So, I got up on Monday and made the decision in my head to drag my ass out of the stupid funk that I had gotten into, change my attitude and to have a good week.  And...it worked.  I've been very upbeat all week.  And tonight I even invited my parents over to my place... Continue Reading →

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