Existing Outside the Gender Binary
2014 is coming into it’s last couple of months, and I am reflecting on the months of this year that are now behind me. It’s been actually a really great year for me. I can’t complain, I won’t complain. I have had some pretty awesome things happen and have been pleased with this year in […]
Read More 2014 So Far…and Stone? Butch…This could be the most difficult blog I have ever undertaken! I know, right up front, that I will probably get a lot of backlash for this. The topic is VERY difficult to write about without using stereotypes and words that we don’t necessarily “like” to use, but in order to write it I could […]
Read More B-F Question…Hardest Blog I EVER wrote!(I have about had it with being scorned for identifying as Butch….dammit. ~ MainelyButch) “It isn’t an elapsed time since birth, sometimes, but the elapsed-time-since-rebirth since one’s heart and, not incidentally, loins make themselves known” (S. Bear Bergman, “Butch is a Noun” Arsenal Pulp Press, 2010) I hear the words all the time “we are […]
Read More The Scorn of Labels, Identifiers and Belonging