I have a buddy named Ryal, that has just recently started blogging on WordPress. Here’s the link to his blog: “Trigger Warning” yes, the name of the blog is Trigger Warning, and I will add that there are some seriously blunt topics discussed. He’s just gotten started and could use our input and interaction on […]Read More Introducing a New Blogger…”Trigger Warning”
“Significant problems cannot be solved at the same level of thinking which created them.” Einstein I read the most horrible blog yesterday here on WordPress, and was stunned to see such a waste of time and space on here. I’ll give you the general gist of the blog: it was hateful. AND the blogger was […]Read More Stop the Stupid In-Fighting!
Would you rather live life according to the approval of others or aligned with your truths and your dreams? Inadvertently we all start out in this world in the way of living according to the approval of others; it’s called childhood. We are dressed to the approval of our parents – or grandparents – and […]Read More Approval of Others….Or Truth of Self?
“Everytime that I am misgendered I am reminded that I do not fit; that I am not this. I am not that.” ivan e coyote from “Gender Failure” (on Youtube clip about ivan and Rae Spoon’s Gender Failure performances). I can relate with many of ivan’s stories and have all but the very latest (which IS on […]Read More The Proverbial Line
The last 20 years I have – like the rest of the world most likely – watched and participated in the internet and the world-wide web taking over the world; bringing social networking to our tool box for communication. It has certainly drawn our LGBT communities much closer; brought individuals into our lives that we […]Read More Our Internet Allegiances and Remembering when…
This topic was brought up on a video vlog by Whitney of Butch Talk on Youtube. I thought it was a great subject, and one that we do not discuss much, but which needs discussing. Butches and body image, yes, we all have our own thoughts about our bodies. Often I hear my trans friends […]Read More Butch Body Image
I was directed to a blog last night that stunned the crap out of me with its anti-Butch/Femme/Trans overtones and direct, blatant lies and misconception. It infuriates me that this far into the fight for equality across the board the we are still belittling and ridiculing each other right her within the LGBT alphabet soup […]Read More Butch-phobia….my personal rant
Let me add my recent experience, and give you a few hardy laughs, to the online conversation about flying, the TSA and being Butch. Of course as you all know I am very Butch and present as very masculine. I get mistaken for a guy all the time, called “sir” and often the offender […]Read More Getting My Butch Wings
I am Butch. I identify myself as Butch. Some may call is a “label”, I call it my identity; my gender. There will always be arguments about “labels” within the LGBT community, no matter what not everyone uses them or identifies with any particular group or sub-group. That’s a personal choice. A choice I have […]Read More Identifying as Butch: Butch Perspectives
A Smooth Stone… Excellent insight on the Stone Butch persona. I enjoy this blogger’s writing very much!Read More A Smooth Stone..