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Deep Thoughts and a Look Back on 2019

“No one is ever promised and easy path through this snake infested swamp…and then it’s suddenly our turn to cross that black water, or become lost in the past, perpetually locked in suspended states of illusion. Just where are you going? What’s the purpose of your journey? Do you know? Or have an idea? […]

OFOS Butch-femme Dynamic

Some I agree with and some I don’t, but is extremely well written and a great piece all around! I enjoy all of this particular bloggers work she has her thumb right on the pulse of the butch femme world. Loved this blog!!! https://persistentlyfem.wordpress.com/2017/07/04/old-fashioned-old-school/.

Sinful Sunday…”Soft”

I follow a few bloggers on WordPress who participate in the “Sinful Sunday”challenges. I’ve been reading and checking their pics for a good while now but haven’t had the gumption to jump in…well here goes! I randomly shot this pic after a very hot tussle with my girl. We recently had matching tattoos done, hers […]

Making it Work…My LDR Experience

I’m heavily involved with a woman in a very long-distance relationship. I am madly in love with my woman and i believe the feeling is mutual for her as well. We met about 18 months ago online and hit it off very quickly. Neither of us were looking for any sort of “relationship” like the […]

Crazy Spring Feelings

I get crazy for her some nights, that urge just won’t quit. I lay flat on my back, which is how I sleep anyway, stretch out and try to imagine…oops, did I turn off the stove…? Fuck. And, yes, I generally get up to check if that thought, or a thought about the heat being […]

Butch Desire

Butch desire is to fem hunger what peanut butter is to jelly; what ying is to yang. I recently read a really GREAT blog about “hunger”; specifically fem hunger. You can read it here, which is my previous cross post about this blog, and will connect you with this wonderful blogger. The writer is a […]

Again on Butch-femme Relationships

I have just had the pleasure of reading a most outstanding piece on Huffpost called “Redefining Butch-femme Relationships”, by Georgia Kollas, writer, Huffington Post blogger, and cultural observer. I loved it! It could not have been any better! I encourage all of you to give it a good read! Also, Ms. Kollas is a self-identified […]

I Don’t Want to Miss This…

It’s the middle of the night…I reach for my phone…has she messaged me? Did I miss it? Damn, I never want to miss her messages, her texts, videos, pictures…I don’t want to miss a thing. I’ve been sort of walking on clouds…and eggshells simultaneously. I’m falling very hard for her and I know I can’t […]

And I don’t wanna miss a thing…

It’s a nice cool 61 degree morning here on the coast of Maine, albeit a rather overcast day. The clouds gathering above me in the sky are heavy and full of rain – which will surely soon be pouring down upon my thirsty gardens and lawn spaces, thankfully. I am up. I got up at […]

In the Fog..

That’s where I have been lately…in the fog. I’m feeling a whole slew of ways. Emotions are such fucked up things most of the time. I’ve been trying like hell to sort through them all, from those feelings of loss, to feelings of renewed strength. It’s no easy task. I’ve been burying most of my emotions […]