It’s almost 6pm on Christmas Day and I am home spending the final hours of this wonderfilled day with myself and my dogs – both of who are completely exhausted and are crashed hard on the couch in little heaps of very tired dogs. They had a grand time today.
This has been a Christmas season to remember. I have had the BEST time ever this year. Yes, this will be a Christmas that I will look back on with some very good feelings and fond memories. Last Christmas (2015) was so stressful of a time that I really didn’t enjoy it much. I had just moved into my current home; had just finished living with my cousin for 6 weeks – for which I was completely appreciative of, but it was a difficult 6 weeks with me and the dogs feeling totally out of place and wanting our own space back. So when I got moved it Christmas was fast approaching. I basically had 22 days between moving in and the Christmas holiday. Needless to say that was not enough time for me to prepare physically for a good Christmas, let alone prepare mentally and financially. I had just gone through some tough weeks of waiting for the closing on this place to happen, being basically homeless, having 2 needy little confused pups on my hands, and I wasn’t working at that time…so yeah, it was a bit of a rough patch to say the least.
This year was a 180 degree turn around. Life is Good. I have been at my current job for almost a year now and that is going well for me. I’ve settled in to the house; made it into a home for myself, Nola and Lulu. It’s a place we can call our own, where we can relax and enjoy the warm comforts of home. We even had a grand garden this summer here. One that grew pumpkins, squash, tomatoes, cucumbers and more. This spot on the big blue marble is ours and I think we may have even peed on all the corners to mark it as such! hahaha
It has been and will continue to be a good home for all of us. No one wants for anything. It has a good roof, solid walls, locking doors and all the comforts that any of us needs to live here in complete comfort and happiness. And now we have Linda in our lives too. She has become my bestie; a truly loyal and dedicated friend to me. She loves my dogs too – sometimes I think she may love them – and they her – more than I do! I love having a close friend back in my daily life. We do so much together, it’s almost like having a girlfriend without all the romantic complications of it. Linda is very straight and I am very gay….thus this works for us being best friends. We get along famously, and like many of the same things. I’m always telling her she’s too Butch to be a straight chick! haha
I got some new flannel sheets. Yes, next to flannel shirts, flannel sheets are right up there in the list of “great things to give a Butch that will make them enormously happy.” I got two nice sets, one printed with light blue snowflakes on a white background, and one printed with red pine tree designs on a white background. They will – in combination with the new heated blanket that I got also – make my bed a very comfortable and cozy place to be. And to go along with these great gifts from my mother, father and sister Deb, I got a great pair of jammie pants which are black printed with red and white deers on them. And Linda gave me a new pair of fleece lined slippers with hard bottoms so I can walk outside to get the dogs in them. They’re wicked comfy.
So you know that I am going to be sleeping in some serious comfort tonight! And I cannot wait to see what the dogs think of the new heated bedding…Nola has already fallen in love with the heated throw blanket that I gave to Linda. She commandeered it right off quick this morning once she figured out that it was soft and fuzzy AND heated! Nola is one of those dogs that dives deep under the covers, or balls the blanket up so that she is a burrito inside of it. Lulu is a top sleeper. She has long flowing hair and I think she stays quite warm thus she sleeps on top of the covers and directly on TOP of me. Luckily I am a back sleeper, always have slept flat on my back, so Lulu just plunks herself down in the middle of my chest and goes to sleep – after spinning 12 circles on my chest to insure there are no snakes in the bed and everything is good. She’s quite a character.
So, yeah, I had the BEST Christmas ever. I got lots of nice things from Linda and my family. Got some new adult coloring book, a coloring calendar, 2 new knives – one pocket knife and one with a belt case which Linda gave me and is my most favorite gift this year. I got some great new Stanley thermal socks to insulate my feet on these bitter cold days in Maine, a new nail care clipper set and a few other small gifts…all of which made me very happy. But most of all I got a ton of love from one great family and some seriously terrific friends. THAT is the gift that I cherish every day of my life. I am truly blessed. And I am one lucky Butch!
I hope that each one of you are having a wonderful holiday season – whether you celebrate Christmas or Hanukkah or some other winter holiday, I just hope you are safe, warm and enjoying yourselves. Best wishes to all as we now begin the count down to the New Year. It’s time to clean out all that old energy and make room to bring in some of that new, highly charged energy.
I usually spend this week between Christmas and New Years cleaning out things like my closets, my office, files, and do a big general cleaning of the entire house. This helps me to prepare for the next year; making room for whatever it may bring.
Do you have a tradition about bringing in the New Year?
Peace and Love. ~MB
Here are some photos of the dogs today. Lulu got a bunch of new toys and was VERY excited about them. She hoarded them all on the couch where she proudly guarded them. Nola LOVES Linda’s new heated couch throw, so much that she won’t give it up. And the two of them at the end of the day…they had a very full day of food, fun and festivities along with me. Tonight we are all exhausted and are going to bed early….work tomorrow!