Butch Christmas Stuff

ITs common around this time of year to hear partners of Butches – usually in my experience our femme counterparts – ask what to get their badass Butch for Christmas. Of course if they are asking for something specific  or special then your job should be pretty easy.  You just have to figure out if […]

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Last of November

It’s that last day of November, wow has this month flown by!  It feels like just yesterday it was early September.  It’s raining here in Maine and it’s cold.  I am just thankful that it’s not snowing!  I know that snow is inevitable but the longer we go without it the happier I am.   […]

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Purging before Christmas

I spent about 2 hours tonight rifling through the in-box of my email account.   I then deleted the entire in-box contents…after discovering that I had saved emails from people who I don’t even know anymore.  Disturbing to see them still. But all the emails are gone now, and my in-box is clean as a whistle.  […]

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The Truth Hurts Sometimes

I’ve met more than one woman in my life journey that could not handle all of the technicalities of being with me.  I admit, I am not easy to process.  I have a bit of a troubled history.  Don’t read me wrong, I’m a good person with some high morals and ethics, but I’ve taken […]

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Some Photos & a Blurb….

Some photos of my simple life.  My dogs, Lulu the teacup Pomeranian, and Nola the Chiweenie, me and my Mom and my Christmas cactus which is in bloom this morning. I’m off to pick up the new pedestal bed I bought for the spare bedroom and to do some other errands today.  It’s looking like […]

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Thanksgiving Day

Today is Thanksgiving in the USA, a holiday for most of us.  For me it’s a day that I spend with those closest to me, those who I love and care for deeply like my family and close friends.  I had to work today before going to dinner at my sister’s place.  I didn’t mind […]

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Thanksgiving and Politics

I am becoming more alarmed as the days tick by…soon enough Trump will be sworn in as POTUS and I fear that day.  He’s surrounding himself with white nationalists, known racists and Nazi sympathizers.  As I heard today ” they’ve gone from wearing white hoods to business suits.”.  Which is exactly what I am seeing. […]

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Daily Prompt: Ostentatious

via Daily Prompt: Ostentatious I admit that I had to pull out the Oxford American Dictionary and then had to Google the word: Ostentatious.  Whose meaning is “characterized by vulgar or pretentious displays designed to impress or attract notice.” I like to learn and I appreciate knowledge and use of unique words like this one. […]

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Speaking Out

I’ve  been relatively subdued on social media about the political debacle that is currently taking place here in America.  Today I kind of vented some of my frustrations on my Facebook page.  For those who are interested you can check out my page or read below. “I haven’t said much since the election.  But I […]

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Nightmares…and New Books.

I woke up in a cold sweat.    Please someone  tell me it’s all a nightmare.   I cannot even mentally grasp the idea of DJT being President of this country.  What will it mean to us?  I fear the worst for sure.  My Canadian friends have all expressed their shock as well.  I bet […]

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