Marriage…my reflections

I’ve done a lot of reflecting over the last 4 days since the SCOTUS decision on Friday, and a Facebook friend suggested that I write a little bit about my thoughts on it here in my blog. It’s a little bit amazing to look back on the last 35 years of my life as an “out” […]

Near You

I absolutely LOVE this poem, it’ says so much that’s so close to how I feel…

I Digress….

Having a bit of a moment here tonight…..It feels like it’s been months since I felt that love in my heart, but literally it’s only been just over a mere 17 days now….such a short time to drag on so fucking slowly. Thankfully I have a bunch of new things going on work wise that […]

Checking In Monday

Summer solistice yesterday was a really rainy, wet day here in Maine. I attended a family barbeque at my parents’ home, and miraculously ALL of my siblings were there too! That’s a rare occurance, to get all of us together in the same space, it might happen once a year if we are lucky. And […]

Mid June

How is it possible to be so fucking bored and so insanely busy at the same damned time? I don’t know, but I have managed to do it lately. I’ve picked up a couple of little jobs helping to do some spring cleaning on pools in the area, nothing too strenuous, but enough to keep me […]

My Butch Musings Today

I’m not sure exactly how to write about this, or what I want to say, so we’ll see how it goes as I type on here. Let me say that I am just me, and these are my personal thoughts and opinions. I know there are many varying views, and I don’t know that any […]

Sunday Plans

Ok, so I was pretty angry when I wrote yesterday’s blog, and I realize it going back to reread it. Maybe I was harsh, but I felt like that insult was the icing on the proverbial cupcake. I am done with it. And moving on…. 🙂 Let history be history, and lessons be learned. Today […]