Marriage…my reflections

I've done a lot of reflecting over the last 4 days since the SCOTUS decision on Friday, and a Facebook friend suggested that I write a little bit about my thoughts on it here in my blog.  It's a little bit amazing to look back on the last 35 years of my life as an "out"... Continue Reading →


Near You

I absolutely LOVE this poem, it' says so much that's so close to how I feel...

I Digress….

Having a bit of a moment here tonight.....It feels like it's been months since I felt that love in my heart, but literally it's only been just over a mere 17 days now....such a short time to drag on so fucking slowly.  Thankfully I have a bunch of new things going on work wise that... Continue Reading →

Checking In Monday

Summer solistice yesterday was a really rainy, wet day here in Maine.  I attended a family barbeque at my parents' home, and miraculously ALL of my siblings were there too!  That's  a rare occurance, to get all of us together in the same space, it might happen once a year if we are lucky.  And... Continue Reading →

Mid June

How is it possible to be so fucking bored and so insanely busy at the same damned time?  I don't know, but I have managed to do it lately.  I've picked up a couple of little jobs helping to do some spring cleaning on pools in the area, nothing too strenuous, but enough to keep me... Continue Reading →

My Butch Musings Today

I'm not sure exactly how to write about this, or what I want to say, so we'll see how it goes as I type on here.  Let me say that I am just me, and these are my personal thoughts and opinions.  I know there are many varying views, and I don't know that any... Continue Reading →

Sunday Plans

Ok, so I was pretty angry when I wrote yesterday's blog, and I realize it going back to reread it.  Maybe I was harsh, but I felt like that insult was the icing on the proverbial cupcake.  I am done with it.  And moving on.... 🙂  Let history be history, and lessons be learned. Today... Continue Reading →

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