Are there any women left out in the world that are single and aren't a total disaster???  I really have to wonder.  I have had my fill of trying to figure out a single woman lately.  And when you say we are "just friends" I AM going to be dating other women, you can bet... Continue Reading →



Another blizzard here in Maine...another umpteen inches of snow and no where to put it all.  We've gotten nine feet of snow in the last 3 weeks...it's just an anomaly; this doesn't usually happen here.  Along the coast we usually have more mild winters than they do in the mountains a couple of hours away.... Continue Reading →

Chivalry is Not Dead

I got to thinking about how the OFOS (old fashioned/old school) Butches/Studs, and the "older" Butches are known more for their chivalry and Butch manners it seems.  These days we hear the horror stories of the younger crowd not having that same old fashioned/old school kind of chivalry and romantic manners.  I wish we had... Continue Reading →

Laid Back Saturday

I have been told that I come off as depressed and down on myself here in this blog...not my intention at all.  Quite to the contrary most of the time I am upbeat and just a laid back Butch living life in the deep fucking snows of Maine.  Sure the weather gets me down, but... Continue Reading →

Giant Rutt

In response to The Daily Post's weekly photo challenge: "Scale." I spent half an hour tonight stuck in this rutt with the front wheels of my truck spinning, and all 4 wheels engaged....deep freaking rutt...that road needs to be closed.

I Talk A Lot, But Not About That

Ok Bois this one may be a bit deep, but I think Kink knocks it out of the park with this blog. Just sayin…. ~MB

Kink Praxis

When we talk about play in kink community, we often focus on the bottom’s experience, the bottom’s desires and needs, the bottom’s journey in a scene, without discussing the top’s experience, desires, needs, or journey. I’ve seen this in the way we talk about negotiation, warm up, and aftercare, where the focus is on the top’s skills at uncovering the bottom’s limits, needs, and desires. (It is often not imagined or considered that tops might have limits, needs or desires.) I’ve also seen this in educational settings where the focus is often on tops learning practical skills, and what that kind of play might feel like for the bottom, without including what the top feels, wants, or experiences in the conversation. (And without acknowledging that there are practical skills for bottoms as well that might be worth discussing.) It’s as if we are stuck in the idea that…

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Black Sheep

I've always been the black sheep of my family...always the outsider and the odd ball.  I've rather reveled in it, instead of seeing it as a "bad" thing.  Black sheep were used by herders to keep a count on their sheep, they would put in one black sheep for every 50 sheep or so in... Continue Reading →

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