Femme thoughts: Expectations

Hello readers! I thought this particular post on Femme thoughts was superbly written and says sooo much! I could certainly mix it up and write a very similar post! Enjoy! ~MB


I feel like I am growing into this label, and I’m not sure how I feel about it.  Being Femme isn’t at all about being cis female, you don’t need the parts to match the personality.  I have the ability to love deeply, no matter what gender.  Yet I am most certainly a lesbian.  And not by choice.  (cue in Lady Gaga’s “Born this Way”)

Here’s what I expect & want from my Butch:

  • Please take care of your Body.  Let’s workout together… let’s make time to be healthy.  I want you around for along time.  I love snuggling in, and want your body very, very close.
  • Please take care of your Mind:  I also like to snuggle in with books and tea…what are you reading?  What makes you grab your soapbox and put your activist cape on?  I want to know!  Amaze me!  Lets talk and debate.  It’s hot!
  • Please take…

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Author: MainelyButch

I am a pretty relaxed, proud, Butch and a native Mainer who enjoys reading, writing, blogging, vlogging and social interaction. I live in southern Maine, near the coast with my 2 small dogs and I hail from a very large, loving family that is historically rooted here. I write about my life, my experiences, living successfully with HIV, my YouTube experiences, and just about anything that piques my interest. This blog may contain profanity and sexual situations, and is not intended for younger audiences. Read at your own risk. At 54 I see life as just beginning a new chapter, and have decide this is the time that I need to write the stories that got me to this point. I believe we live our lives in chapters, changing, evolving and moving continuously with the times. I love to laugh, have discussions, debates and even the occasional nonsense conversation! I generally enjoy people, but not drama, hatred, ignorance or those who choose to feel they are somehow elite or superior to another simply due to their mere existence. I try to be very conscious of the health of the world around me - environmentally, socially, economically, and ethically. The people who are dear to me know me as having a tough exterior, filled with marshmallow and crunchy peanut butter. I continually strive to be the best I can be, especially to address life head on...always.

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