Top Surgery: A Butch Perspective

As most of you know I had top surgery on August 18th by Dr. Kimberly Marble at Exeter Hospital in New Hampshire.  I wrote a piece on August 30th about some of the reactions I had received regarding my choice to go ahead with this surgery.  In the month since that post I have noticed... Continue Reading →


7 Word Sunday

The words lingered on her lips gone.


“Pearls” an excellent little piece written by Wet Bliss…love it.

Wet Bliss

Radiating with need
Skin covered in sheen
With sight deprived
Senses come alive

Listening intently
Breathing in gently
A new kind of bareness
Heightened awareness

Kisses along the neck
Trailing little pecks
Teasing swollen mounds
Eliciting sounds

Eased back into place
Nestled in the space
Secure within your hold
Parts the quivering folds

The sound of my cries
Echo as I ride the tides
Revealing my pearl
Cause I’m your good girl

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Hyper Awareness of Gender Identity

I had a pretty packed day today.  Once I overcame my Monday blahs and it became Tuesday I found my energy once more and definitely used it up today.  It was an interesting day, and I've been pondering some of it's points tonight, and realized that since my top surgery I've been almost hyper-aware of... Continue Reading →

Medicate me baby

It's getting colder in the mornings here in Maine...almost time to break out the Chippewa insulated boots and flannel lined jeans!  I'm never going to win any awards for the way my Butch ass dresses, but I definitely try to keep it clean and presentable.  I was reading a fellow Butch's blog and it was... Continue Reading →

Just a Monday

I have no idea what to blog about.  I've been doing more reading than anything lately.  There are other bloggers that I associate with who write and have been doing some really great stuff lately.  I almost wish we could pull a bunch of the pieces together in one place and do a collaborative Butch-Femme... Continue Reading →

Perks Of Dating A Femme

This is a GREAT blog and gives a far more clear picture of why I, as a Stone Butch, like Femmes. Femme in NYC’s list here is spot on! She nails every point.

A Femme in NYC

No, I’m not playing for the other team now. I asked my friends and acquaintances what are the advantages of dating a femme as opposed to a femme-identifying feminine lesbian, bisex or straight woman (cultural appropriation anyone?).

After her own self-discovery and acceptance journey, a femme:

– Values you.
– Respects you.
– Gives you the place you deserve in her life. The younger generations have close-to-none bio-male baby-daddy drama because they know having a child with a butch and a little bit of borrowed/bought sperm is an option. The older generations know better than to give a bio-male more power in her life and relationship than her husbutch has.
– Doesn’t criticize or belittle your ideas. She gets you and is your first cheerleader.
– Knows that when you open the door for her, take out the garbage, build her a walk-in closet, put your arms around her shoulders……

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Handful of Wants…and Other Things

Handful of wants (0ceanswaters wrote about this and spurred the thought)...oh to have such a thing....if only one could limit this indiscretion to one handful...If I could have just a handful of things...what would they be.  I'd want more time with my girl...I'd be in a luxurious room in Vegas somewhere ...  I'd want a... Continue Reading →

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