As most of you know I had top surgery on August 18th by Dr. Kimberly Marble at Exeter Hospital in New Hampshire. I wrote a piece on August 30th about some of the reactions I had received regarding my choice to go ahead with this surgery. In the month since that post I have noticed […]Read More Top Surgery: A Butch Perspective
The words lingered on her lips gone.Read More 7 Word Sunday
“Pearls” an excellent little piece written by Wet Bliss…love it.Read More Pearls
ROAR…I woke up this morning like a tiger; in a great mood and ready to pounce. Of course, no pouncing for me, I’m alone this morning – which is just as well because there’s only one woman I wish to be pouncing upon! 🙂 And she is not in the country currently. Thus I will […]Read More Conversations and Blogs…Feeling Great!
I had a pretty packed day today. Once I overcame my Monday blahs and it became Tuesday I found my energy once more and definitely used it up today. It was an interesting day, and I’ve been pondering some of it’s points tonight, and realized that since my top surgery I’ve been almost hyper-aware of […]Read More Hyper Awareness of Gender Identity
It’s getting colder in the mornings here in Maine…almost time to break out the Chippewa insulated boots and flannel lined jeans! I’m never going to win any awards for the way my Butch ass dresses, but I definitely try to keep it clean and presentable. I was reading a fellow Butch’s blog and it was […]Read More Medicate me baby
I have no idea what to blog about. I’ve been doing more reading than anything lately. There are other bloggers that I associate with who write and have been doing some really great stuff lately. I almost wish we could pull a bunch of the pieces together in one place and do a collaborative Butch-Femme […]Read More Just a Monday
Originally posted on A Femme in NYC:
No, I’m not playing for the other team now. I asked my friends and acquaintances what are the advantages of dating a femme as opposed to a femme-identifying feminine lesbian, bisex or straight woman (cultural appropriation anyone?). After her own self-discovery and acceptance journey, a femme: – Values…
Handful of wants (0ceanswaters wrote about this and spurred the thought)…oh to have such a thing….if only one could limit this indiscretion to one handful…If I could have just a handful of things…what would they be. I’d want more time with my girl…I’d be in a luxurious room in Vegas somewhere … I’d want a […]Read More Handful of Wants…and Other Things
Love the Marquis de Sade reference…and really like this pic!Read More Enjoy Life!