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Recalibration

Very well written! I can so totally relate, and I am sure there are others who can as well! I really enjoy this blogger! Check her out!

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I wonder if this is what Peter Parker feels like when he goes home to MJ and finally takes off his mask.  

After a sincere, year-long attempt at a relationship, I’m actually pleased to be returning to single life.  Breakups always suck, and this one is hardly an exception, but singledom feels so natural to me– truly being the master of my own life, my schedule, my activities and, perhaps most importantly, with whom I spend my time.

I’ve never understood how some of my friends could hop quickly from one relationship to the next with barely any time in between to find themselves again.  I always find myself needing more alone time than usual after a breakup, time I often refer to as “recalibration.”  It’s not only that you need to figure out who you are independent of the relationship, but you need to figure out who you…

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Youtube versus Real Life…choices

Youtube, the internet versus Real Life...the two are somehow separate, yet somehow intertwined; parallel universes revolving around your own personal sun.  I been thinking lately.  I have been on Youtube for 5 years and 4 months now...quite a LONG time for any Youtuber!  I've seen people come, stay a little while, do a dozen or… Continue reading Youtube versus Real Life…choices

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B-F Question…Hardest Blog I EVER wrote!

This could be the most difficult blog I have ever undertaken!  I know, right up front, that I will probably get a lot of backlash for this. The topic is VERY difficult to write about without using stereotypes and words that we don't necessarily "like" to use, but in order to write it I could… Continue reading B-F Question…Hardest Blog I EVER wrote!

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The Femme/Butch Question

So I get quite a few questions posed to me because of my Youtube channel and other internet venues I am involved in, one of the most common questions is "why do Femme lesbians want to date Butch lesbians? Why don't they just date a man?" Of course this question is very irritating to me,… Continue reading The Femme/Butch Question

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A Moment of Reflection

So much happens in the world, and inside my freaking mind, that I would love to find the time and energy to write my thoughts about, but it seems that I can never put the two - time and energy - together when I am in that right frame of mind to write.  I am… Continue reading A Moment of Reflection