Just some rambling….

I been having a rough couple of days to begin with then I read today that Hostess is going out of business. Now anyone who knows me knows that I survived the last year primarily on Devil Dogs, which are made by Hostess!  And to boot they made Twinkies too…yeah the stuff that is supposed […]

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Originally posted on Femmtastic:
Hi All I vlogged this on http://www.youtube.com/femmtasticj  so I am putting it here as well it just jerks my chain that people think thy can tell me who I am, when I am not sure they even know themselves!   To whom this may concern; Ok Ok  Now be calm.  There…

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The Butch-Femme Friendship Dilemma

I recently had a question asked by two different viewers on my Youtube channel, and it gave me pause for thought, and fodder for a blog and vlog on the topic. The question is “Can Butches and Femmes be just  friends?”  Meaning here, can they successfully navigate the terrain of friendship –  without becoming emotionally […]

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Dear Readers…

Dear Readers, Thanks for stopping by and reading my crazy rants and raves.  You are going to see quite a few new posts, some of old writings that I have in my collection, as well as some new stuff that I am doing as I am working through a project to collect most of my […]

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Who God Intended Me to Be

I personally have no idea what it’s like to be any other way than Butch lesbian.  I know some people “come out” later in life and “figure out” they are LGBT…or that they are Butch or Femme,  a tweener, a granola, queer, or __________(fill in the blank with your favorite identity marker or label).  For […]

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