Things Butch-Femme

Just some rambling….

I been having a rough couple of days to begin with then I read today that Hostess is going out of business. Now anyone who knows me knows that I survived the last year primarily on Devil Dogs, which are made by Hostess!  And to boot they made Twinkies too…yeah the stuff that is supposed… Continue reading Just some rambling….

Things Butch-Femme

This is a great piece, Janet does just a great job of being oh-so Femme! I love it!!!

Femmtastic

Hi All I vlogged this on http://www.youtube.com/femmtasticj  so I am putting it here as well it just jerks my chain that people think thy can tell me who I am, when I am not sure they even know themselves!

 

To whom this may concern;

Ok Ok  Now be calm.  There has been much said and debated over the labels we should or shouldn’t place on ourselves as a group. Isn’t it about time that this ceased?  If you want to be part of the identified group then fine so be it, and if you don’t then walk away quit associating with the group, problem solved.  With that being said I will gladly lend my opinion to this discussion.

Being given a  label or stripped of a label by someone who chooses not to be labeled within our community, is a moot point as they are nonexistent due to not…

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Butch Stuff, Things Butch-Femme

The Scorn of Labels, Identifiers and Belonging

(I have about had it with being scorned for identifying as Butch....dammit. ~ MainelyButch)“It isn’t an elapsed time since birth, sometimes, but the elapsed-time-since-rebirth since one’s heart and, not incidentally, loins make themselves known” (S. Bear Bergman, “Butch is a Noun” Arsenal Pulp Press, 2010)I hear the words all the time “we are all just… Continue reading The Scorn of Labels, Identifiers and Belonging

Relationships, Things Butch-Femme

The Butch-Femme Friendship Dilemma

I recently had a question asked by two different viewers on my Youtube channel, and it gave me pause for thought, and fodder for a blog and vlog on the topic. The question is “Can Butches and Femmes be just  friends?”  Meaning here, can they successfully navigate the terrain of friendship -  without becoming emotionally… Continue reading The Butch-Femme Friendship Dilemma